Some diary entries … September to November 1996

1/9/96 – In the afternoon we all went to Malahide Castle, going badly wrong on the way and ending up in Howth. We had a good time at the model railway display (which was very impressive) and playground, and there was a sort of rally of old and modern motor vehicles (we were all in a fire engine). Good fun. Got lost again on the way home.

2/9/96 – Sean’s first day in Senior Infants. Pauline gave him a shower in the morning and dressed him in his (mainly) new uniform … [Later] Pauline, Susanna and Olivia (who started school today) went to collect Sean and will head on to the beach … [Later] Pauline and the kids arrived back from Bray …. Sean’s first day back at school had gone fine.

6/9/96 – Sean slept late, having come in to us during the night after a ‘bad dream’ … [Later] Phillip was here playing with Sean for the afternoon, to Sean’s delight. They set off to go around the block, but crossed the road and ended up in Broadford Drive, to the annoyance of Pauline and me.

7/9/96 – Pauline and Susanna went with Sean to watch him have his first swimming lesson in Sandymount, which went well.

12/9/96 – I took Sean, Susanna and Olivia to the grassy space at the end of the road, where we played football and they ran races.

17/9/96 – Pauline took the kids out to get Sean’s birthday present from Dave, Dervla and Keelin. He chose a large ‘fighter aircraft’ that can do lots of different things – he’s very happy with it.

19/9/96 – I took the stabilizers off Sean’s bike and we all went to the green area at the end of the road: soon Sean was riding it by himself, though he couldn’t start himself and would fall off when he stopped. After dinner we all went to Marley Park and soon Sean was doing everything on his own – he cycled a long way on the grass. He was delighted with himself, and rang Granny and Grandad to tell them when he got home.

20/9/96 – Pauline took Sean and Susanna swimming in Cheeverstown, and they went to McDonald’s afterwards. Then we all went to Marley Park again, and the kids cycled their bikes.

21/9/96 – Sean had a swimming lesson in Sandymount – he’s doing very well.

23/9/96 – I posted Peter a collage that Sean had done of Peter with his yacht, pet crocodile, etc.

24/9/96 – We were all tired – Sean had to be woken at 8.30 (he had been in our bed for a while during the night because he’d been frightened).

25/9/96 – Susanna was excited about going to ‘her school’ – Pauline starts her counselling course in DATE today and Susanna will be going in the crèche. I had to make a sandwich for her and put it in her lunchbox.

26/9/96 – Philip was here with his toolbox in the afternoon, to Sean’s delight.

27/9/96 – Susanna slept right through, so everyone had a good sleep. She and Sean were downstairs again first thing, playing with the remote control lorry and racing car. Sean went off to school after more revision of words for his test (!) today … [Later] Sean had done well in his test and got his first reader, so he was very pleased.

28/9/96 – Sean read me a story in bed!

29/9/96 – We tidied up the garden and I watched most of the Meath v. Mayo replay – Pauline and the kids watched the end of it and were fanatical Mayo fans. Meath won, unfortunately.

2/10/96 – Sean has PE today, so he had to wear his runners. (In the event he was barred from PE for pushing and shoving.) [Later] Sean, Susanna and Olivia put on an ‘Irish dancing’ show.

5/10/96 – We got the place, ourselves and the kids tidied up and a photographer arrived to take some photos of us … I took Sean and Susanna to the little park at the end of the road, where they did some cycling, and then around the block for a walk.

6/10/96 – After lunch Sean and I broke up the base of an old bed that was in the shed, so that it could be taken to the dump. Sean enjoyed this, and we attached two of the springs to his feet for a while at his suggestion.

7/10/96 – Sean arrived home from school with a potential black eye – he had run into someone in the yard.

10/10/96 – Sean and Susanna were up early. Sean was going to Marley Park with his school today, and didn’t have to wear his uniform … [Later]Sean had a good time in the park – they walked all the way there, and to the playground, and back, so Sean was very tired.

13/10/96 – Pauline and I took Sean and Susanna to a ‘Teddy Bear’s Concert’ in Amharclann Naithí – the Dublin Youth Orchestra played a concert geared towards kids and kids were encouraged to bring teddies with them. Also, there were two people in teddy suits dancing about. The music was very good.

16/10/96 – Pauline and Susanna did well at their class and crèche – Susanna now minds two small babies and doesn’t cry. In the afternoon Pauline took Sean and Susanna to Dundrum for storytime in the library, which turned out to be entirely in Irish. Susanna got involved anyhow. Later the three of them plus Olivia made some dough and some figures out of it, and baked them in the oven. Sean painted his.

17/10/96 – Sean and I played ‘cricket’ in the front room – I threw a rubber ball; he tried to hit it with my glasses case. He enjoyed this a lot.

21/10/96 – Pauline and Susanna went to the mother-and-child playgroup, which Susanna loves – she was very excited about it.

28/10/96 – We got the office prepared and gave the walls and ceiling a coat of white paint, helped by Sean.

29/10/96 – We gave the office another coat all over in the morning, then let Sean and Susanna do a bit.

5/11/96 – Pauline bought a bow and arrows for Sean, with which he was delighted, and some stuff for a Robin Hood costume – his class will be dressing up as TV/book characters on Friday. They dyed material for the costume.

6/11/96 – Sean’s Robin Hood outfit looks very well – he’s obsessed with his bow and arrows.

8/11/96 – Sean was up early, and in bed with us for a while. He was dressed up in his Robin Hood outfit for school – Olivia went as Esmeralda from The Hunchback … [Later] Sean had a good time as Robin Hood – the kids had to walk on a catwalk.

9/11/96 – ‘It is low clouds today on the mountain’, Sean wrote, asking for guidance on spelling. Quite poetic, I thought.

11/11/96 – Sean got only one word wrong in his latest test – 57/58.

16/11/96 – Susanna’s party commenced, attended by the four of us plus Siân, Pete, Olivia, AJ, Andy, Daniel, Rory and Michael (Noonan); also Liam, Christine, Dónal and Ruth. The kids played and had fun and eventually ate cake, sweets and so on; Susanna got a lot of cards and presents and had a great time.

17/11/96 – We watched a documentary on explosives with Sean, who is fascinated by anything spectacular – avalanches, earthquakes, explosives, etc.

18/11/96 – Sean and Susanna were in the bath on their own when there was a power cut and I lost work for the second time today – when the lights went out it was pitch dark. Sean shouted in excitement, and Susanna got into a terrible panic and started screaming. We calmed her down and lit some candles; Pauline lit a fire. It was great fun for the kids; not so good for Pauline and me.

21/11/96 – Sean had a haircut with a no. 4 blade, and looked very cute.

24/11/96 – Sean is suddenly into jigsaw puzzles, and good at them.

25/11/96 – Sean and Susanna had been tidying the house – Sean had become obsessive about it … After dinner I played a game with the kids where one of us would hide a swimming tube and the others would try to find it. Susanna, not grasping the concept, would always show where she had hidden it.

29/11/96 – Pauline spent the afternoon rigging up the bunk beds for the kids, with some help from Sean and me. They were thrilled with them, especially Sean.

30/11/96 – Pauline took the kids to Sean’s swimming lesson in the afternoon – he’s doing very well.



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10 responses to “Some diary entries … September to November 1996

  1. Shermeen

    Such a lovely photo, Brendano and I particularly liked reading about your game of cricket with Sean!

    • Hello Shermeen … thank you; I really like this photo too. And I know you’re a big cricket fan! Sean actually got to like watching it on TV later, though he never played.

  2. Bilby

    “Sean read me a story in bed!” Wonderful entry, Brendan, which creates a charming picture in my imagination.

    I love the photo.

    • Hi Bilby … nice to see you, and thanks very much.

      I hope all is well with you … we’ve had a nice sunshine-filled weekend. I have been neglecting this blog a bit … very busy with work and other things. Must do another of these diary posts soon; I intend to do them all the way back to Sean’s birth.

  3. Bilby

    I’m fine thank you, Brendan. The weather is brilliant and I’m pleased the sun is shining on you too. I think your diary posts are a labour of love and a wonderful thing to share x

  4. Brendano – a very enjoyable account and I can see “Low Clouds on the Mountain” as a song! There are as usual quite a few gems in here: for some reason I like the “No. 4 blade haircut” and Sean’s idea to attach two of the bed-springs to his feet. As for the story of the candlelit bath time, well I just wanted to read a story about that.

    At my sons school this Friday, all the kids are encouraged to dress up as Kings and Queens. We shall probably dress Kojo in a Ghanaian costume and plant some beads round his neck and see if I can find some exotic head gear. (I wonder what all the Muslim kids will be wearing! I can’t see anyone dressing up as Prince Charles – which is what I did once, and I hated it.)

    Looks like your two children had a treasure box of clothes to dress up in. Would have loved to have seen Sean as Robin Hood though I guess in more recent years he ended up as a latter day Robin Hood. He didn’t need the green livery, he was just Sean.

    As for “avalanches, earthquakes, explosives … anything spectacular” well did he ever change! What a wonderful boast of a boy’s character.

    Tomorrow, at my new school, there will be a fashion parade on the lawn in front of the school. Pupils will be parading costumes, painted T shirts etc, and the teachers will be encouraged to take photos which I expect will be displayed later in the main entrance to the school. Today I was acting the fool in the playground, pretending I was something like a crippled scarecrow, taking these long, disjointed strides towards chasing a class of screaming children and then bursting into a sprint to try and ‘tag’ someone. It was huge fun as they hid behind bushes which line the outside wall of the law, seeking refuge there, only to glimpse the ‘wicked scarecrow’ taking these painful steps towards them. God I wish it had been filmed – truly it is a kind of paradise.

    Thanks to your commitment here with the ‘Diary’ I have just begun to start entries for Kojo. I will let you know as and when there are decent posts so watch this space. Strangely, for Sean and Kojo, diary-wise, time’s arrow is going in opposite directions, but who knows …. if Puck can put a girdle round the earth then on another platform, Sean and Kojo may yet meet. I hope so. The thought cheers me up anyway.

    • Hello PapaG … what a great comment! Thank you so much.

      Doing a diary based on Kojo is a great idea, as the whole family will enjoy it later. Children do say funny things. Susanna often bursts into laughter when I’m going through an old diary and tell her something she did or said that was long forgotten. I started typing up another of these posts last night and will put it up before too long.

      I’m delighted that your work is going well … you deserved a break, and you got a good one.

      Talk to you soon … enjoy the sunshine!

      • papaguinea

        Brendano – I will never forget Sean’s comment on the “chaffinch” hair cut. Right on the ball, ‘cos I can just imagine the look, and that off-the-cuff remark so typical of the Irish; well I think so.

        Thanks for your reply. We had a great time this afternoon on the front lawn of the school. West Indian drummers, marquee, loads of food and drink, lots of parents, and kids in their element sporting hand painted shirts and colourful hats, walking up and down the flagstones on their fashion parade. Alas I was not permitted to take private photos but i shall send you a shot I took before the event so you get an idea.

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